freedom from the dictates of others is supreme happines

One would say go with the flow then  you will survive. Which means we must always follow the norm which is cowardly. Thats why some people remain in the same position in life without progress. Never wanting to reinvent themselves just for the sake of stability. Remember all great achievers in life were all risk takers they did not want to be bogged down by traditions and methods used by everyone or their forefathers. They took the initiative to think and express their true self, actually they weren't risk takers they had the courage to express who and what they are in their own unique way. This is all for now.... stay tune there's much to be added